Letters of a thousand pictures

Got to read about this new blog from Tomorrow Secret Letters.

It is about a married guy writing letters to the girl he loves, who is also married.

After reading the blog, the first thought that came to my mind is that are you being fair to your wife?? You said that even before she appear, there are already cracks in your marriage but did you put in an effort to mend the marriage or simply hope that everything will work out fine and just continue to ignore the cracks?

Even your wife noticed that you are behave in a different way towards this girl. Let me tell you, women are no fool when it comes to things like this. Something will tick in that mind of hers and she will start to put things together. You say that you spend a torturous amount of time with her but do you know that the time you spend away from your wife is also a torture for her? Because she knows that you are spending your time with the other woman instead of her. Apparently you have kids, do you want your kids to know that daddy loves another woman who is not their mummy?? What kind of values are you trying to teach your kids? That it is ok to be married to someone and be in love with another??

You are being selfish.

If you have absolutely no more feelings with your wife, make a clean break. Don't drag things till the very end when it explodes in your face, then you make a decision. Or perhaps you would like the decision to be made by others instead of yourself so that you can say, "I didn't want to do that but she insists on it."

Did you ask yourself, are you pining for her because of the physical aspect of the affair or do you really love her? Is it the thrill of the moment, in the heat of passion that you feel that you could not leave her alone. Thrill of the moment, heat of the passion will fade but what will you be left with in the end? A broken family because of your "love" for her? Is it really love? Have you ever ask yourself that?

Damn, getting all worked up because of this stupid guy but I absolutely can't tolerate men who is unfaithful.